Make you happy is the greatest aim~

Sudah hampir seminngu ini mama selalu minta saya pulang ke rumah, katanya sepi dirumah cuma berdua.
Semenjak "ditinggal" alm. papa, kita memang cuma bertiga dirumah dan sebenarnya berat juga sih untuk jauh dari rumah - home sick.

Cuma ya gimana lagi, for the sake of job.. I need to through this way :p
Sekarang setiap hari Jumat saya selalu merasa excited sendiri karena itu waktunya pulang kerumah, membayangkan bisa bercanda dan ngobrol sama mama dan adik itu rasanya udah seru banget.

Saya jadi ingat waktu masih kecil, mama suka banget marah kalo saya main sampai sore. Habis mama itu dulu galak banget, yah sama sih kayak alm. papa.. Hehe..
Mama itu dulu kalo marah bener-bener ga ada "rem" nya.
Dulu saya selalu berpikir punya ortu kenapa sih galak dan cerewet, ga gaul - kalo istilah jaman sekarang.
Tapi semakin kesini saya jadi mulai mengerti betapa sulit jadi mereka.
Gimana ga sulit? Saat mereka peduli karena mereka sayang banget sama anaknya malah disangka anaknya kalo mereka jahat, ga gaul dan dugaan buruk lainnya.

Hei, perempuan...

Kalo kamu seorang perempuan dan kamu menerima perlakuan yang ga sepantasnya kamu terima dalam konteks perkataan kasar yang cenderung merendahkan bahkan misalnya perlakuan kasar, apa yang akan kamu lakuin? Dengan sedikit catatan setelah itu pacar kamu minta maaf, entah minta maaf karena memang menyesal dan berjanji ga melakukan itu lagi atau sekedar menyesal sesaat.

Dan kalo sudah minta maaf tapi dia ulangi lagi kesalahan yang sama, apa kamu mau terus maafin dia?

Saya mau bertanya sama pihak perempuan dulu deh.
Girls, menurut kamu yang bisa diharapkan dari sebuah hubungan?
Pasti rasa nyaman, bahagia dan saling menghargai kan?
Gimana kalo salah satu ga bisa lagi kasih rasa nyaman? Apa hubungan itu bisa dilanjutin?

You? or Other people?

Nowadays, cool tools just make us easier to share some information with certain aims.
We can share cool pics or any informative pics and links to some social media website, like Facebook, Path, Twitter and any other socmeds.

What i am concern about is the aim you share those information. Some people just expecting much they can get the benefits by sharing the information using their social media channels.
For me, that's a BIG NO NO.

Just imagine you want to give a food for the beggar, which one do you think first time, do you think the benefit is for you or the beggar?

Why don't those people think like that at the first place?
Well, i mean you can get any other benefits after you give the benefit to other people first.

Back to the topic, if you would like to grab people's attention to your contents, first, please do mind what is your contents exactly pointing about.
Make sure you have the product, the brand, clear target and specific idea about the way you create the brand awareness.
You can't get any attention when you are not clear for what you are pointing about, if you do so, you just look same as the plagiarist. How pathetic, huh?

Secondly, there's no magic happens in seconds unless it's a fairy tale.
Every thing takes time. So, be patient.
Please keep in mind that to engage the real users as well as the users' intention are not easy, as i mentioned earlier, please make an analysis to have a clear data who is your real audiences.
Only working with machine can boost up your experience but you must be look like fake then.

The conclusion is when you can give the benefit for other people they will appreciate you and will give you the benefit back~